I’m not anti-social, it just takes me a while to [want to] crack open. I make social plans days ahead cuz that’s how long it takes me to to work up the energy, which is why I don’t follow thru w/ last minute plans that involve humans. Also, I tend to decompress days after.
If you know someone that has a NEED to please everyone & you take advantage of that, you’re a shitty person down to the core. Don’t make their life even harder because you know they can’t say no.