There’s been an attempt to label me an abuser and an irresponsible father.
On being accused of being an abuser: I normally choose silence, but there are narratives that must be corrected. So allow me say this; I am part of the unreported statistics of men who experience domestic violence from partners with uncontrolled anger issues. But because ‘we are men in a corporate world,’ we stay silent, show up every day. I restrained myself immensely despite all provocations and assaults. But society will, of course, believe the female gender. I have evidence of myself bleeding after being assaulted. All my closest friends, family know this.
On being accused of being an irresponsible father: Despite having only seen my children ONCE in the last ten months, I have never stopped sending money monthly, a figure that wasn’t decided by me, but by my accuser. There is evidence of this: messages saying “thank you” and receipts of the transactions.
I have gone to court, fought, and been granted custody of my children, custody that authorities deliberately failed to enforce (that is a story for another day). Custody was granted on grounds of desertion: the mother had deserted them in a locked apartment with a maid while she was traveling overseas. Since January, I have been denied access to my children, despite numerous requests to seem and third parties intervening.
To men: speak up against violence from your wives when you still have the chance. I suffered in silence for too long. It didn’t help.
This is the last time I am addressing this issue, please give me space to heal.
Pray for a financial breakthrough👇🏻
Ohh God, I thank you for my life and health, I praise you with all that and I have, forgive all my shortcomings God so that I start out today renewed and deserving of your living sanctuary, God I am grateful for the financial blessings you have bestowed upon me. I pray for peace and tranquillity in my financial life. Please help me to trust in your provision and to have faith that you will provide for my needs. Help me to use my resources wisely and to be a good steward of the financial gifts you have given me. I pray for a breakthrough in my financial situation. Please open doors and create opportunities for me to increase my income and achieve financial freedom. God you never fail me, you never fail to come through for me, even in these difficult times when my finances are low and worry has invaded my mind, help me to be confident in your ability to bless me and the assurance that You will supply all my needs according to your riches in Glory and abundance. IJN. Amen.
Pray for Today👇🏻
God, the creator of this earth, thank you for loving me and protecting me through the past night and days, thank you for I am alive and healthy to live and do your mighty works today, thank you for I am a peculiar kind, a royal priesthood, one preserved and consecrated for greatness in you, my prayer for today is for alignment with your will and purpose for my existence, Lord I know that I am alive for a reason, you intentionally created me for a purpose, my journey is, so your name is magnified, I pray that you my Lord guide me in the way that I should go, help me to be positioned in the right places and position, help me to serve my purpose according to your will, help me to serve beyond my physical and mental ability, give me the courage to keep going regardless of what is set to hinder me, help me to serve others with meekness and wisdom, may my tongue carry the law of kindness, create in me a heart that cares for others and wills to do good, by my hand Lord bring deliverance and redemption to many, help me live and serve in my purpose Lord, make available everything that I need to bear fruit in my purpose, Lord I long to explode in doing good for your people, I pray that I see signs of greatness in what you are yet to do in me and with me today. IJN.Amen. 🙏
Let’s Pray for the Day👇🏻
God, our wonderful creator and provider, the most merciful and most Gracious, we love you and exalt your name above all names, thank you for protecting us throughout the night, we are grateful for your hand was upon us, for today Lord, we pray for your strength to attack the day ahead positively, help us to focus on the possibility that we are winning, and not the idea that because we have failed before, we will fail again, help us to remain positive even when everything around us is reminding us of what is negative, help us to see the best in people and focus on the good, may we bear good thoughts for others, may we do good and be a blessing to those around us, bless us in abundance so we can bless others too, use us for the liberation of others, may we voice our concerns about oppression with out fear but in faith, may we be a ray of hope for those who feel discouraged, may our stories and testimonies cause souls to turn to you, may we manifest the seasoning of salt in us, make it evident to those who are watching us in mockery that you are working in us, may today be a turning point in our lives. IJN. Amen.
Pray be4 you Sleep👇🏻
God, thank you for the opportunity to make it out of today sane, there are moments in the day that could have knocked me out but I’m grateful for your saving Grace that carried me through life’s challenges, thank you for friends and family, and thank you for strangers that smile and show kindness, Lord I’m amazed at how faithful you are, thank you for provision and protection throughout this week, I pray that you ohh Lord forgive all my sins today, before I retire to bed, I pray for your peace and comfort throughout the night, be our protector Lord, help me to find peace in the midst of all worries and troubles, remind me constantly that you have all of it under control and that tomorrow will be a day better than no other, rule and reign in all that concerns me ohh God. IJN. Amen.
Pray for this week 👇🏼
God, I am grateful for your love and protection throughout the weekend, I come before You with a heart full of gratitude for the gift of life and the opportunities that lie ahead, thank you my God for the gift of life and salvation, I am blessed to be yours, this week Lord, give me the wisdom to know how to transact with people, led me and introduce me to my destiny helpers and start me on my journey to elevation, as you Live my Lord, may their be life in everything I touch, may your favour go ahead of me, may I give testimonies of breakthroughs in every area of my life, may all my struggles come to an end, all my enemies Shall be put to shame, the enemy’s camp shall be struck by confusion, they will instead praise you in awe of your goodness, my family will celebrate this week, I shall not fail, may my tongue bare the law of kindness and may I create generational wealth by my hand and your mind, this is my victory week and I am thankful to you my God in advance. IJN. Amen. 🙏