Remember:
1. The oceans are being killed.
2. Forests will soon be gone.
3. Fertile soil is disappearing.
4. Megafauna risk extermination.
5. Insects are vanishing.
6. Climate chaos is inevitable.
7. Extinction is now.
8. Plastic is in our blood.
None of this is front page news.
I am not sure why the customer support reps are falsely promising and are not able to get my order delivered as it has been delayed for days without any reason neither makes sense what is the problem.
Crazy 🥱 I was been faithful in my relationship and still gotta accused of cheating 😩 like damn where these niggas at because a bitch be over super lonely phone dry as hell
Young boy said never trust a man who cheat on his wife and never trust a bitch who fuck a married man …
I mean to me That going over yall head . Cheating is a character flaw . If they’ll backdoor the person they married to what makes you think they won’t cross you ????
Love comes when you are not looking.
You really want your own person? Stop focusing on finding them.
Get busy with other things and you will see how the universe brings them to you.
We often misconstrue the true meaning of romance, and this is exactly why most people think romance has to be performative. But that is not true.
Romance is an act. Being thoughtful and doing thoughtful things for your partner simply because you want to make them feel special and loved. It is an expression of affection.
Romance becomes performance when the intent is to post it on social media to be perceived as romantic. When you intentionally record certain romantic moments and/or gestures to be perceived as the perfect partner, it shifts from an act to a performance. Because now, instead of expressing love to your partner, you are performing for an audience, and with an audience comes the pressure to appear perfect.
Also, the highest form of love is consideration. Someone who is in love with you will not put you in a position where you have to inconvenience yourself for them, especially when they know they can make life easier for both of you. You cannot love someone and watch them suffer for you. That is not love.
Loving someone requires going out of your way to make them feel special and loved. It requires sacrifice. However, there are sacrifices you must never allow someone to go through for you if you genuinely love them.
God asked Abraham to sacrifice Isaac, his only son. Knowing Abraham’s love for Him, He knew he would do it. But because of that same love He had for Abraham, He stopped him from going through with it. And that is because He knew that sacrifice would hurt Abraham for the rest of his life.
That is consideration. To love is to be considerate.
If you want to meet your person, you must be celibate and release your need to control all outcomes. You don’t need to force yourself out there. Just wait faithfully, stop entertaining the wrong people, trust God’s timing, and fall deeply in love with your own life and company
Modern luxury is the ability to live quietly. No drama. No noise. No pretending to be someone you are not. Just living low-key. Reading. Thinking. Listening to music. Staring at walls. Going for walks. Watching old movies. Being bored. Working on your purpose. And feeling life deeply. That is peace.
I love being alone. At home. All day doing nothing. Eating snacks, watching movies, music, books, strolling around, random dance, cooking, pausing at the window. You may find it meaningless. But for me, it's eveything. The ordinary. The little things. But you won't get it.
Childhood trauma can create a desire for hyper-independence. An “I don’t need anyone” protective mechanism. Healing is about learning how to ask for help and how to receive help when it’s given.
The healthiest way to walk through life is neither looking down on others nor constantly looking up to them. Pride builds walls, while insecurity builds cages and both keep us from seeing people as they truly are. Every person carries a story, a struggle and a lesson that can’t be measured by status, talent or success. Humility is not thinking less of yourself. It is remembering that no one is so great they have nothing left to learn and no one is so small they have nothing left to teach.
Some relationships are only meant to last for a short time, not for your whole life. Knowing when a relationship has ended is its own kind of wisdom, and accepting this truth helps you let go without bitterness as you step into your next chapter.
i dislike being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you’re harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact
95% of relationship issues are actually communication issues. Learning to directly express your needs, and to understand the needs of another is a massively underrated life skill.
I don't hate socializing. I just love being home. Where it's quiet. Safe. Soft. No small talk. No noise. No pretending to be someone I'm not. Just me. Reading. Thinking. Listening to music. Staring at the wall. Watching old movies. Being bored. And feeling life deeply. Some people call it boring. To me, it's where I finally hear myself again.
Anyone can say they want to be with you.
But commitment is an action.
Commitment to someone means learning about their past, their triggers, and what they value in partnership.
Commitment to someone means having self awareness so you don't make promises you cannot keep.
Commitment to someone means getting out of our comfort zone to show love in ways that might not come naturally to us.
Commitment to someone means telling the truth even when it causes discomfort and it's easier to tell a white lie.
Commitment to someone means doing small things to show your gratitude that the person lives life along side of you.
Commitment to someone means taking care of your mind, body, and soul so that you can be the best version of yourself.
Commitment to someone means you don't run when feelings fade because you have the maturity to understand relationships aren't a fairy tale.
Commitment to someone means practicing emotional regulation so that you can have difficult conversations.
Commitment to someone means learning how to cope with being disappointed at times so that you can give your partner the grace.
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The best relationships are with people who value growth. They’re interesting in knowing and doing better. They’re curious about themselves and people around them. They don’t shut down with new information, instead they seek it. They’re not uncomfortable when you change because they do too.
Doctors have told me that I'll never fully recover. Hearing those words was heartbreaking, but I refuse to let them take away my hope or my will to keep fighting. I'm not giving up. I just want people to understand what this journey is really like.
A nap won't fix it. I'm not lazy. I'm taking my medications and doing everything I can, yet I still wake up every day facing chronic pain, mobility issues, and overwhelming exhaustion. Some days, simply getting through the day takes everything I have.
The most painful part isn't always the physical pain—it's hearing, "You look fine, so it can't be that bad." If only people could feel what my body goes through for just one day, they would understand that invisible illnesses are every bit as real as the ones you can see.
This illness affects every part of my life—physically, mentally, and emotionally. It steals so much from me, but it will never steal my determination to keep fighting.
I don't need pity. I don't need to be judged. I just need compassion, understanding, and support. Please remember that you never truly know what someone is battling behind their smile. Be kind... your kindness may mean more than you'll ever know. 🩷