It’s crazy how the people who usually need the most support struggle with receiving it, yet are so good at supporting others. That’s the price you pay for experience and a depth that most people haven’t reached yet.
Sometimes you gotta remind people:
I was solid before you showed up, already blessed, already grinding. You added to the vibe, but you were never the reason for it.
Don't confuse access with credit.
a man gonna treat you exactly how he feels about you. a man that wants you fr ain't leaving no space & opportunity for you to think anything else..i promise
crazy how peaceful life becomes when you decide you no longer have the energy to teach people how to appreciate you, respect you, respect your boundaries, treat you right, listen, communicate, resolve conflicts, honor agreements, be accountable, and have difficult conversations.
Iv’e learned that real character is quiet. you don’t have to convince people you’re a good woman. If you are, they’ll feel it in the way you move, the way you love, the way you show up, and the way you leave people better than you found them.
Best advice I can give anybody right now is to make sure you got your own and always do what's best for you. This is a cold world we living in. So get your own and pray you never get in the position to where you have to depend on anybody.
I've been praying a lot these days. When you don't have someone you can talk to when things get heavy, just pray.
Goodmorning Fam and blessed Wednesday y'all ♥️♥️♥️
The best discernment advice I can give anyone is to always appear useless, resourceless, and naive. You need to see how people would treat you when they perceive they have an upper hand or view you as vulnerable. 99% of people blow it every time and you have to make them eat that