Neal Ashley

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@MyHeartcode Break up of relationship and then a close friendship and to add a little spice the loss of a relative.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@chensiquan_ @libriscent Even in close friendship too, you want to feel valued but their actions make it feel like its not you're there to support each other not for it to be one sided.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@libriscent What if the hurting began when she hurt you first?

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@arikoyarii Currently going through a situation where I'm trying to repair a friendship but it makes me feel like she doesn't want to especially when she doesn't communicate with me that's the hardest part because I always wait for a reply from her but always message back within the day.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@unkdio @soysabil Try engaging in a relationship with a worker and going through the break up and trying to remain civil that shit really hurts.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@libriscent She left me confused but I still tried for us both I think asked for some space after my grandads funeral because I was feeling numb all the time and ever since then I've gone on a downwards spiral but I'll take accountability for my actions she won't.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@Kings1627796 @Gabbrielxzn But what if they hurt you first to the point they had you confused, and then you ask for some space and the hold it over you when you want to reconnect and repair?

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@Fiction_1m How I've felt for the past 2 days

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@No_Offence008 @TheDivisionGame Thank you, a bit irritating when we've been building them up to have to abandoned them.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@GoodGirlNaomi @Broken_Dreamszz Learning not to give a fuck is the real challenge, but you'll get there. It'll come one day

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@ZaraEveryDay @1ssve But that's when the tell tale signs of an avoidant started to appear, they started when we first started dating but couldn't quite put my finger on it till the second time around. Even asked her why and she couldn't tell me but the signs were there.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@ZaraEveryDay @1ssve The next they don't, I got the silent treatment from my ex we spent the weekend together like we had done previously only this time she had a week off from work and didn't reply or acknowledged my messages for 3 days to when I asked her if everything was okay she said yes

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@ZaraEveryDay @1ssve At least you're going to be upfront about it, rather than the partner having to learn and find out the hard way, either way it's mental torture to the partner you're being avoidant with. That and push and pull, one minute they want to see you every day/other day

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@YonatanScott @Sabimtv If that is the case don't lead them on if you have zero interest in working through those issues.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@riftgirl_ @Solyricon Mine breadcrumbed me then she dropped the "we're not compatible" after months of dating and enjoying everything we did together to then try deny she had the characteristics of an avoidant. Nothing more mentally damaging than those two put together.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@ZaraEveryDay @1ssve I think most avoidants won't admit they are a avoidant instead they'll let their on/off parnter suffer in silence.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@disappear30 Towards the end of 2025 and the start of this years, just spent the last 2 weeks focusing on myself and no one else because the energy hasn't been reciprocated.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@GoodGirlNaomi @Broken_Dreamszz When you're putting in all the energy and showing you care and its not getting reciprocated then you know it's time to walk away, I've experienced it and it's mentally draining currently on the recovery side of it now, it's definitely a lesson learnt.

[Neal Ashley @NealAshley9]

@Jaxavali @Xbox Regardless of who the developers are when it comes to CoD that game has been heavily copied and pasted they lack creativity.