anita is in nyc

somatic IFS practitioner. I love exploring emotions and consciousness. dm for 1:1 sessions. ex software eng

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

I've been wanting share my solo process for emotional processing in case it's helpful for anyone. I've been using it for the last few months and it's the most effective I've landed on yet but these things evolve so I want to share it while it's still alive for me...

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@TylerAlterman this is so cute!!! I love it

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my biggest pet peeve with claud is that it really struggles to be unbiased and no amount of telling him that seems to keep him consistently unbiased.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

@seventhmeal yes, "search problem" is actually a better classification than distribution.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

most problems are solved by knowing the right person. so most problems are a distribution problem.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

@clioputra @heywavelength thank you for sharing, I'll check them out.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

I wanna work for a company that’s trying to do dating and matchmaking with ai and I wanna do loads of interviews with couples and singles about their relationships and systematise what types of attractions lead to lasting healthy relationships, what leads to breakups etc.

nothing is more fun to me than talking to my friends about their relationships, and relationships and emotions are all I think about. and it would fit my IFS work so well!

I think we can make leaps and bounds in this realm with ai.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

@mathyouf @AriZerner Thank you both, are you in nyc at the moment matthew? you look familiar, I’d love to chat :)

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@LukasRosenstock well what I’m most enthusiastic about right now is doing the systematising and hands-on work rather than running a company… I also don’t want to stop my 1:1 work.

What makes you ask?

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

@funplings @crystalxduan fwiw the reaction felt absurd back then too.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

all the challenges we face are like challenges in a game that have the potential to unlock more love, if we let them teach us that way.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

I think the whole thing–this life, being conscious thing–is a scheme to learn to love.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

@silverarm0r thank you 🫡

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

@CodyZervas @maebichka sweet, will do :)

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

@maebichka @CodyZervas very cool, thanks for sharing!

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

kind of a special time to happen to be in america right now

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

living in mexico showed me how much kinder and warmer I could be. medellin showed me how much more skilled of a dancer I could aspire to be. new york is showing me how much more ambitious I could be.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

I seem to have a singing radar because everyone I go on a date with and like turns out to know how to sing. this is perfect, because I must be with someone who can sing.

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

something I learned from my ex that I use everyday: how to read google maps without turning my phone lol

[anita is in nyc @neats29]

who should I meet up with while I’m still in nyc?

[❤️‍🔥 xiq in SF 22-26 June @exgenesis]

I WANT YOU to give a last summer first summer lecture at fractal brunch

Will you be in NYC on Sunday July 5?

Do you have stuff to say about one of the following topics?
- squads
- team work
- collaborative circles
- scenius
- church
- politics

Reach out!