You have to be vulnerable with eachother when things get though and willing to work as a team. By no means is life easy, truly understanding each-others point of view is important but mostly being loving and present to put in the work together.
The older I get, the more I reach the conclusion that most problems within a relationship can be resolved with emotional intelligence and good communication, IF both parties have the same intention: to find solutions.
I hate thinking “okay let me show less love” “let me not care soo much” I hate that feeling. I should never have to feel that way. My purest form is loving hard, caring hard and nurturing hard. That’s just how I am.
I’d love to start doing a pod cast on relationships and talk about real life issues we all deal with. I just need a co host to do these with. @ me cause I really want to do this.