@akirosenthal I'm not the type who enjoy compete so my word might not amount much but, if someone has done their utmost, they can be proud of themselves no matter the result. That's my belief.
@Footballtweet I'm with Doku. Family should matter the most in any situation. I won't criticize anyone choose otherwise but, if someone want to be with their family in crucial moment like giving birth or passing or an operation, it's up to them.