I write for people who look like they have it together and know exactly how much that costs. Honest writing about work, family and living with a busy mind
I perform best in a crisis and stall completely on a quiet Tuesday. For years I thought that made me good under pressure. It actually means my brain only shows up when the stakes are interesting.
I keep getting drawn into conversations where people brag about how much they work on holiday.
Ignoring your family to send an email is not a badge of honour.
Hard work is not always a virtue.
You don’t need more motivation.
You need fewer escape routes.
Most people know what they should be doing.
The challenge is that their phone, inbox, social feeds and imagination have 50 other suggestions.
Most productivity systems fail people like me not because we lack discipline. They fail because step one is usually “remember to do this.” That’s the exact step a busy brain skips.
@Codie_Sanchez One of the most liberating thoughts in life is that
Nobody is watching you that closely.
People judge for 10 seconds
then go back to thinking about themselves.
So stop delaying your life trying to avoid opinions that disappear by lunchtime.
If you had two income streams growing steadily, would you think differently about risk?
About speaking up?
About changing roles?
Wealth doesn’t just buy things.
It buys courage.