I’m a very simple guy; you can’t see me where they didn’t invite me to.
You can’t see me where I’m not appreciated.
You can’t see me where they don’t rate me.
I’d rather be in my house.
Take the blame and disappear. Become the villain and exit the story. There's no point writing paragraphs explaining how someone's actions made you feel. There's no point trying to make someone understand they wronged you when they lack the basic capacity for accountability.