I prefer a “I am busy right now, but i love you & i will text you as soon as i’m available to talk” rather than going hours with no text back wondering where you’re at.
One skill to master is the ability to the remove yourself from unnecessary conflict & nonsense. Hold yourself to a high standard and understand that not everything deserves/needs a reaction or response. Your time and energy is valuable, spend it on the things that matter.
So I'm doing an internship at a hospital. there's a 56 yo man admitted. I observed whenever this lady visits, she literally lowers his blood pressure & heart rate by walking into the room. (Observed by other doctors too) I asked him who's she & he said "that's my wife"..crying 😭
I tell you this, as a man:
A man that loves you, will NOT forget your birthday - especially not the first, worse off, the second.
Stop accepting nonsense, in the name of love.
matching someone’s nonchalant energy when u’re naturally sweet and caring is mentally draining and damaging. you can lose yourself and never get it back.
Some people are just irreplaceable.
The things they do, the love they show, the feelings they had for you, if you lose them, you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.
My husband has a peculiar habit of ringing the doorbell instead of using his keys to enter the house, even when he has them with him. I have been opening the door for him for years now, and i always wonder why he doesn’t use his key instead.
One day, I asked him why he doesn't use his keys, and he replied that he loves to see the happiness on my face when I open the door for him. He also likes it when I greet him with a smile and ask how his day was.
He even admitted that sometimes he purposely waits outside until I come to open the door. Whenever I asked Asher to go open the door, he would say that he wants to see my face instead of Asher's.
Since then, I have been eagerly waiting for him to return home every day, and I stay close to the door so I can hear when he rings the bell. It has become a fun little tradition for us.
@OfficialDadyA2 Thanks 🙏