Later I would find out that he still flirts with other women , turns out flirting is his nature, had nothing to do with him loosing his job, peer pressure or family interference , I was making up too many excuses for him…..
Chapter 12 - The Search for Greener Pastures
I reached out to a couple of friends and family no one was willing to help, it was humiliating and embarrassing asking for help and hearing “no” especially because I did not like asking for help.
all coordinated by me. Everything was fine in the beginning no drama, but I was still upset about him mismanaging the funds and selling the car without my consent or explaining to me what he used all the money for.
Chapter 11 - A new apartment - what changed
We had less arguments after we moved out due to less family interference, my husband started doing bolt with our car, I noticed however that he would not come home early sometimes even until the next day,
my depression was increasing, my mental health was deteriorating, I started seeing a psychologist ,to heal.
A friend suggested we relocate to the UK and that she would help , so the idea of relocating came up, I had just finished paying of my loans after 4 years of marriage.
in front of you guys so all of you as my witness i am saying sorry to her” he said this with laughter and they all laughed as well. I was soo embarrassed but I let it go, some few weeks later i found out the room opposite us was being rented out by my mother in law
Chapter 10 - The beginning of the End
I was angry and devastated, my mother in law supported me and told him to apologize, he casually said sorry, but when he had issues with me he would post the girl on his social media, he would go out and come home the next day or at dawn.
I told him he can’t embarrass me in public and appologies in private so he must apologize infront of the tenants and his siblings. He called everyone after several weeks of me asking, and told them “she said I should say the sorry in front of you guys because I embarrassed her