Bafazi, quick reminder, no one is bigger than the program. When it comes to men, don’t lose yourself. Don’t beat your chest for a man, and don’t drag other women down to prove a point. 🫵🏽
Nothing ruins a relationship faster than watching your partner show up for everyone else in ways they never show up for you. It proves they have the capacity but not the desire to do it for you.
You ever sit and think about it…and realize the only reason it lasted as long as it did is because you kept accepting things you shouldn’t have? You kept being patient. Kept understanding. Kept giving chances. Instead of choosing yourself sooner.
Abanye abantwana sail through life and wena you always just have to try harder, always have to be strong, always have to understand, It's always never your time😭😭😭😭😭
Saw a post that said “if your partner is not willing to make some people uncomfortable to make you comfortable, get a new partner” and I just…😮💨 whew!
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
The tragic part is that she'll remember you as a lesson, not a love story. She'll tell future partners about the red flags she ignored. The disrespect she tolerated. The love she gave to someone incapable of receiving it. You won't be the one that got away. You willl be the one she's grateful got away from her.
for someone to make an active decision to never speak to you again, and they deeply care/ love you that tells you A LOT. they're aware they have to go through a grieving process over that decision to remove you and still pick that over having you in their life??? speaks volumes.