You cannot teach someone how to love you if they haven't learned how to love themselves. You are looking for a soul that understands the language of growth. You are looking for a partner who values peace over being right.
Why you plan but don't execute
You don't lack discipline, you're stuck in a cycle. A cycle of planning, dreaming, organising, rewriting, and refining, without ever fully stepping into execution. Planning feels productive, safe, and hopeful. It gives you the illusion of progress.
You may not understand it now but God is working in the background-lining up blessings, strengthening your faith, and weaving beauty into the broken places.
God's hand is in it all. The highs. The lows. The in-betweens. He's not just watching your story He's writing it with love.
Nothing in your life is random.
Not the timing. Not the place. Not even the waiting room.
Every delay carries purpose. Every closed door protects you. Every long road prepares you. Even the silence is sacred.
Nothing in your life is random.
Not the timing. Not the place. Not even the waiting room.
Every delay carries purpose. Every closed door protects you. Every long road prepares you. Even the silence is sacred.
A big part of being happy is being excited. Be excited for everything - making a cup of tea, seeing a friend, the next episode of your favorite show, buying something you've been saving up for, sunsets, traveling, falling in love. Live a life you are excited about.
I did it for me.
I didn't like how I felt. I wanted differently for myself. So I took responsibility for how I chose to show up. I recognised the cycles I was stuck in. I recognised when I didn't do right by myself.
A big part of being happy is being excited. Be excited for everything - making a cup of tea, seeing a friend, the next episode of your favorite show, buying something you've been saving up for, sunsets, traveling, falling in love. Live a life you are excited about.
Every day, you have two choices: to focus on what's wrong or to embrace what's right. Choose gratitude. Choose joy. Choose to see the beauty in the little things, and life will become even more incredible than you imagined.