I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy ! I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode ! My nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood & now I’m choosing peace, softness & stability !
My main PRIORITY & focus is MY KID! nothing comes before my kid, everything stops for my kid & most importantly my kid comes before a Job, family , a man anything it’s always my KID for me!
I think men are becoming too content with being useless. You guys literally can’t fix shit, can’t build, don’t pay for shit , struggling to plan dates . Like what are you really here for??
When you fuckin w a real nigga, you ain’t gotta worry about shit.. and not even talking bout $$$. No real nigga wan see u out here fucked up mentally or emotionally and gone stand on anything bout u cuz it fuck w his mental when you not straight or if y’all not on the same page! He gone seek clarity faster than u cuz u apart of his plan. Always remember if he wanted to he will SIMPLE
i can’t stand a nigga that’s tit for tat like your main purpose as a man is to lead and be logical, so why are you mirroring me and ts i do out of emotion? who tf gone be the man if we both acting like bitches?