Bc they are never blunt about being encouraging, positive, or supportive. But conveniently blunt when it’s time to put someone in their place or be opinionated.
& when kids are being abused, hurt or neglected in other households y’all quick to scream “where was the mother” but when a mom is involved and wants to know who’s around her child and the environment she’s being “nosy” and “worried about the BD” man STFU.
@KristyT@LaCienegaBlvdss Financially and even more so emotionally if the parent with the new kids is present and involved with their new family in a way they never were with the first. It takes a lot of dedicated and intentional work to make sure your older kids don’t feel like they’re being replaced.
THIS is what being intentional looks like. He ain't guilt-trip her for needing space, ain't make it about his ego either. He respected her boundary AND still showed up for her. A man who can love on you without demanding access to you every second? Whew, that's a whole different kinda peace.
Yes!! Absolutely is. BOTH parents need to be prepared for potentially big emotions especially if their shared child has been an only child. Sometimes very young kids regress when they get a new baby in the family. All things BOTH parents need to prepare for BEFORE the birth.
No wonder you guys live chaotic lives full of drama, you don’t understand basic respect and consideration that goes into Co parenting, you share a child and a life, ofc you have to let the other parent know of any major life events that can change and introduce new dynamics
The way I rinsed this movie back in Uni ehn…a roommate introduced it to me, and I was hooked
It also introduced me to Nina Simone’s black bird, a song I grew quite fond of
I think my short fuse and intolerance for disrespect stems from the fact that I just do not disrespect ppl, so I am absolutely floored when ppl try me. My immediate reaction is that you must hate my guts or be evil