becoming a full time Jesus girl has made my life so peaceful. it’s insane. even in the midst of what should destabilise me, God just keeps me chillin. everything I have laid down has only made me lighter, more ready to move. more aligned.
This is how society is shaped.
It's those who check inappropriate behavior, speak on it and follow through (usually at great personal cost), instead of just accepting the status quo or excusing behavior that's seen as normal, who make things better for all of us.
Thank you!❤️🙌🏽👏🏽
If such men want to continue down that path it’s ok, they will be worse off for it: the stats have shown that for a long time. It’s just funny to me when I see “men are only loved for what they can provide” posts. We can all provide now hun, are you even pleasant to be around?
No one would think that's funny. And the entire society would consider it a problem that should be resolved. We'd all intervene and report the pages and get them shut down because - that's not allowed. But we've allowed it to happen when it's men. And therein lies the problem.
Imagined if we changed that and told girls "if he cheats on you, you don't deserve such disrespect and it's an affront to your existence, so poison him". Or had a girlosphere that taught girls to "put their problematic spouses in their place by disabling them".
The mess we're seeing is from a generation of women, either being raised to not exist in service of problematic men, or unlearning it in their adulthood, thanks to the internet. So all those deaths - they're a reflection of what we as a society promise men vs reality.
Sit in a group of women and mention harming their spouse because they harmed them and see the response you get - a good chunk of it will be anger that you would dare do that. None of it is natural. It's what each group is told from childhood that guides their behaviour.
Good on her for tapping out of the foolishness. I’m a monger sha, so I would’ve probably gone for my plate, but God knows I’ll never take you seriously
The biggest red flag TO ME is men who try to goad you into hysterics like this.
It’s always “never that deep” or “not that serious” but there’s something sinister about “good men” setting women up to second-guess their instincts, ESPECIALLY given how many “bad men” there are-
Yeah I just watched her response to this video and I’m on her side
The man is weird. The friend he cooked with didn’t do anything wrong ofc but the man is weird. Lmaooo