๐ง๐ง๐ฌ๐พ๐ฆ๐ฌ๐ฑ๐จ๐น๐น๐ง๐ธ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ธ๐ท๐จ๐ฆ๐บ๐ธ๐ฌ๐ง๐ช๐ธ๐ฎ๐น๐จ๐ญ๐ฑ๐บ๐ฆ๐น๐ง๐ช๐ฉ๐ช๐ณ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฝ| Hidden Political Antagonist and A Morally Ambiguous Womanโข๏ธ
Yโall use menโs gaze to validate you EVERY SINGLE DAY, but the minute a fat girl and/or dark skin girl wants to play, suddenly itโs โmen will fk anything babeโ โโyouโre not his typeโโโjust cuz they wanna fk you, doesnโt mean they love uโโ & I just wanna let yall know, we see you.
You didnโt lie. We expect Black women to be doormats even as leaders. White men get called โleadersโ for behavior that makes Black women โbitches.โ Society expects men to lead and Black women to mother them even when sheโs the leader. And when she refuses that role she is a bitch
My woke take is black women are generally not terrible bosses. People just expect extraordinary humility from black women.
Anything less is taken as angry-black-woman behaviour๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
Idk I feel like the โsnacksโ dumbfounded look and never properly showing that they agree with the โfridgeโ plays into this.
After a certain age, your friend shouldnโt be burdened with rejecting men for you, esp not all the time and when you canโt even speak up alongside her