My heart is broken for the victims and their loved ones in Aurora. I'm grateful for the first responders who put their lives at risk to keep people safe. We've lost too many lives and seen too many communities shattered by gun violence. We can't let this keep happening.
The reason you keep losing yourself in relationships is because instead of staying fully in alignment and in tune with yourself, you keep matching the vibration of the other person. Perhaps this is what you believe you have to do in order to connect.