"When I was broke, my eyes saw shege from my woman. Women are not designed to carry responsibility"
It is you that wanted to see shege. No woman is designed to disrespect you because of setback. Stop telling yourself nonsense. You're not the first man to experience setback and your woman is not the first woman to be with a man facing setback. You are the one who accepted disrespect because you felt you deserved it.
You both made a vow to each other. If you're both broke, you'll manage yourselves and build together till you rise again. If she is doing fine during your setback, she is supposed to carry the family pending when you get on your feet. Family is commitment. She married you not your income.
There is no room for disrespect. "A woman cannot....." or "a woman is not designed....." are terrible excuses you make for yourself because you lack self respect and was only using money to mask it. There is no valid reason under heaven for your woman to disrespect you because of setback.
Seeing women try to make excuses for it or justify is why you should learn to pay attention and stop dating nonsense. The setback has not happened and there are women saying you will get respect only if you make yourself useful or a woman is not designed to. These ones are looking for fair weather marriages.
Date people with family values who understand that life comes with sunshine and rain and that family stick together in all seasons of life. You have only one life, use your head.
7 Signs You're Creating A More Secure Attachment Style:
1. You're directly asking for what you want, rather than expecting people to read your mind.
2. When you feel hurt or disrespected, you're expressing it and setting boundaries.
3. Even though you feel like shutting down at times, you can recognize it and have uncomfortable conversations.
4. When your partner is a little distant or needs more space, you're taking it less personally.
5. You have tools and can self soothe after stressful conversations. You can also ask for help and support if you need it.
6. You're more comfortable letting people see the messy imperfect parts of you instead of trying to appear perfect.
7. After you hurt someone or you act in ways you're not proud of you're learning to own it and repair, which has helped you feel much more confident.
Bookmark and start creating a more secure attachment style.
Are YOU noticing this within yourself?
Woke up and I really cant do this anymore.
Please, If you stay around, Cardiff, Newport and Pontypridd and can accommodate me for a short while ( at most a month)
I would really appreciate
I dont mind paying
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Before you share about what you are healing from, ask yourself:
-Has this person done similar healing work?
-Have they shown a genuine interest in my growth?
-Do I feel safe after I share things with them?
What else?