Guys if you want to really enjoy your life, be healthy and live long, marry a medical doctor, especially if she's from Akwa Ibom.
You can thank me later!
@TuslowT It's a lie! Even those of us earning N60k in Nigeria are still better than you. It's better you come back here and start frying akara or roasting corn business with just N50k.
Employed a staff through an agency, agency said I need to pay them the staff’s salary for as long as they are employed, I said nope. I can pay you a commission for the search but if someone works for me, their salary would go directly to them.
@Aduradara61049 The most exciting part was when it's your turn to prepare meals. You get to decide the menu for the entire week, draw budget and go to the market with mum.
My sisters know how to check the car every morning because dad taught us when it's your turn to was the car.
@Aduradara61049 Yes, I believe every child trained to have basic life skills. I grew up in a family of 4boys and 2girls. We had a weekly rota that was reshuffled every month. Each person had an opportunity to prepare/serve meals, do laundry, sweep the compound, wash car, wash plates, etc.
you matters more than your comfort.
The Bottom Line: Real kindness is given freely with no strings attached. Strategic kindness is a contract you never signed. You deserve connections built on mutual transparency, not compliance disguised as care.
#RealTalk
#Realtalk Avoid someone whose kindness is a strategy.
Strategic kindness lacks authenticity, often comes with an invisible price tag and a subtle form of manipulation designed to create a sense of obligation.
The person is not being good to you simply because they want you to...
True kindness respects your space and your timeline. Strategic kindness often feels rushed or disproportionate to how well you actually know each other. If someone is crossing your boundaries under the guise of "just being nice," they are showing you that their desire to pursue
@Aretetolife_03 The both of them are not serious. If your partner is not comfortable with what you're wearing or the way you look, please listen to your partner and change.
But if my wife doesn't want me to use/wear something again, that thing disappears automatically.
@OgundejiAnthon2 1. Hugging her while standing is a bad idea. You're just holding her legs tight.
2. Like Tyrion Lannister and Sansa Stark, you may need to climb on a stool to be able to kiss her, but she can bend for you.
@Nccbella Yes o.
I had one of my best relationship experiences with this girl from Gombe. Sweet girl, beautiful, bright and kind. But everyday she keeps telling me that her family, particularly her mum mustn't know she's dating a guy from the South. We parted ways peacefully.