It is unfair the woman is the one being dragged when the man is the one that messed up. We need to encourage family values and bring back healthy faithful relationship. The behaviour we are encouraging is damaging us and that is why we have many people living with trauma. You might think it is just sex, but what about how it affects your partner and the other women whom you led to believe they are in a relationship with you.
Please don't lead people on by denying your relationship, just because of sex. You are playing with their hearts.
Pain has a face. The people you are hurting are not statistics or numbers. They are individuals with hearts who also have their own expectations from relationship. Interestingly, the consequences are not the same for men and women. Please protect your partner by doing right by them. If you have erred in the past, you can choose to do better going forward.
In a relationship or marriage, privacy is not the same as secrecy; your partner deserves some privacy, even in their phone conversations.
However, when secrecy becomes the order of the day, that's when you'll notice that they turn on disappearing messages and become overprotective of their phones.
It may not always lead to physical cheating, but it can result in emotional cheating.
For women, it starts with her feeling excited to share her personal joy with a stranger online.
If she's angry, she wants to tell him about it.
If she's happy, she wants to tell him about it.
Even when she has sex with her partner, she'll want to share her experience (good or not) with him.
Those conversations can become very intimate, and she'll definitely not want her partner to see them.
That's no longer privacy, it's secrecy.
For a man, he'll indulge you in his personal affairs.
He'll make you understand how good he treats his woman and make you admire his wife and him.
Those beautiful or sweet conversations that he'll be having with you will make you low-key start to compare him with your man and make you start wishing he was the one.
Until he gradually starts becoming your go-to person and your confidant.
And that's how you become very vulnerable with him and start imagining doing things with him.
He, too, will not be comfortable allowing his woman to see those conversations.
That is no longer privacy, but secrecy.
I put it to you that most people cheat emotionally without necessarily being in physical contact with the other party.
Some may go the extra mile to make their imaginations a reality, and most would stop as online romantic or flirtatious affairs.
Very few people are immune to this.
However, pray that the other party is as mature and discerning as you are.
The only way to completely avoid it is to not start the conversation at all.
If you can.
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Yes, like totally free.
The school is Let It Shine Academy located at Sangotedo, Lagos Island.
They should get more visibility for the type of service they render for parents who are not able to cater for their ward’s school fees honestly.
“Please, I have come to make some clarification. Today makes it 24 days that we have been in this place. Some press media outlets are complicating the issue by stating that the people who abducted us requested N1 billion ransom and demanded Sharia law across the country. These claims are not true…….”
Abducted principal, Rachael Alamu of Community High School, Ahoro-Esinle.
INEC needs to be careful.
Nigerians are reporting that their data are being systematically deleted from the system
There needs to be some sort of clarification from INEC
If there is election in a state, IGP will deploy 30,000 men to that state.
Teachers and Children were kidnapped, no such deployment or fierce effort to retrieve the children.
Elections are more important to these men than our well-being.
This is NOT the nigerian army. This is a video of the barbaric terrorists dressed up in a full nigerian military uniform with boots, arms and equipment that even nigerian military don’t have.
Yes the same terrorists the nigerian govt calls “brothers”.
This country is a joke.
This one shook me to my core 💔
Nigeria has many ways of failing its people… and this is one of the cruelest.
Meet Gospel Uabari Kinanee. In 2007, he was just 14 years old. He left home to play football with friends and never came back.
For months, his family turned Rivers State upside down. Hospitals, police stations, morgues — they checked everywhere. No Gospel.
The search broke them. His parents sold their land, their property, everything they had to find their son. The pain and stress was too much. Eventually, both of them died from heartbreak 💔
The world assumed Gospel was dead too. Years passed. 18 long years.
Then in 2025, out of nowhere, his older brother got a call: “We found your brother. He’s in a correctional facility in Rivers State.”
For 18 years, Gospel had been locked up. A 14-year-old boy who went out to play.
When they asked for his case file, there was nothing. No charges. No court record. No reason for his arrest. Just a child… forgotten behind bars.
The worst part? Gospel lost himself in there. His mind couldn’t carry the weight. He doesn’t recognize his brother. He can’t explain how he ended up in prison. The boy who left home to play ball is now a man who can’t remember his own story 😢
How does a child disappear into the system for 18 years without a case?
How many more “Gospels” are wasting away in prison right now for nothing?
This is not just his story. This is a wake-up call for all of us.
Nigeria, how do we fix this? How many innocent lives are we still losing to silence and broken systems? Talk to me
#JusticeForGospel