I mean no one’s ever told me I talk about myself too much, but I feel like I do, and I don’t want to be that person, I want to make others feel seen and listened to.
They've met some pretty bad people and were fully, reasonably the victim of one or two situations, which has (in tandem with their depression) driven them to this mindset of permanent victimhood and self-pedestalisation.
II love you. I did and I do. Not in love, but loving you as you are and as what you were and as what you could be. don't want our mutual insecurities and mismatch to govern our friendship. It's been that way for a long time. "I'm the problem, it's me."