And some of your clients aren't kind/ understanding. My friend lost her mum, which affected her business(deliveries and what not).....even after she explained her situation to her clients, some asked, "mbona hukuniambia?" As if she had received an alert about her mom's death.
Self employment. People outside it only see you working less hours and making more money. From inside you know you work like 18hrs a day ata ukiwa disco unameza Balozi ukifikiria mbona sasa invoice tatu za last week hazijalipwa na kwenye rent itatoka na baddies wanashangaa niaje huyu mzee hataki kusuguriwo.
Murima enyewe wamama hukua wametukalia in all spaces, I mean species! 😂😂 mzae macho inaonekana ametoka local anashangaa huyu ni nani mrembo ivi but hanyamazi
I suspect that there are only 2 men in women's entire life: The 1st choice and the best choice. The man she marries will probably be her best choice. A product of careful thought. Yet every man wants to be the 1st choice. The man that drove her insane. Crazy, reasonless passion.
It is my fear, that the more self-aware we become, the less we will want of spouses. Because love - even in its abstract form - demands some imagination. Some romance. A little delusion. I am afraid, very afraid, that I have lost the capacity to entertain this necessary delusion.