GBV doesn’t start once y’all are in a relationship it starts by how you speak, treat and react towards one another from day 1.
The most important decision you can make is deciding who you want as your partner.
You cannot keep sacrificing your own feelings to maintain relationships with people who never sacrifice their behaviour to maintain a relationship with you.
No matter how you play your cards , you always gone have to make a choice at the end of the day. Just make sure you have the right set of cards. Also this isn’t about cards…