Nigel

IG: @nigelmarcellus

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

@KingOfQueenz are yall planning to come to Boston?

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

@SekaiDefines Thank you so much for reading!! It truly means a lot 🤞🏽

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I wrote about it on substack: https://t.co/aTRfK6K24d

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

Is being a man embarrassing now?

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

It's already in you. You just gotta tap in.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I owe it to myself to find out how great things can really be.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I’ve gotten way too used to being okay with things I’m actually not okay with.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I want that "we're best friends and lovers" type of love.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I will marry a Black woman and become the best husband I can be, the husband she deserves.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I'm a lover, so yes, I want to love deeply and be loved just as deeply. But not by just anyone. I want someone who meets love with reverence, who holds my heart like it's poetry, not a pastime. Someone who chooses me, intentionally, every single day.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

A mature lover understands that love isn’t just something to feel, but also something to nurture, to protect, and to grow with presence, intentionality, and care.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

A reckless lover chases the feeling of love and being loved, but a mature lover holds space for both.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

A reckless lover will always find themselves hurting others or getting hurt because they move through love without regard for its weight.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

Being a lover isn’t just about passion & romance, but it’s also about how you handle the other person's emotions with care, respect, & emotional depth.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

It's so important as a lover to date someone who's also a lover, but who's a mature and responsible lover.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I want to provide the kind of love that cultivates safety where you can be your full, authentic self without ever worrying about how you’ll be perceived.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

It’s an honor as a Black man to create an environment where Black women never have to be strong and to be their safe space.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

Still moving with love and believing in love in this world is so attractive.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I pray that when love finds you again, it’s with someone who understands just how real & rare you are.

[Nigel @NigelMarcellus]

I’m so sorry you were made to believe you were hard to love. You are deeply deserving of love, and I hope each day you begin to realize that you were never asking for too much.