I’ve been quiet… not absent.
I was building, protecting, and embracing the greatest blessing of my life.
God gave me more than I prayed for
a woman who became a mother of three, and three kings to call my own 👑👑👑
My world. My responsibility. My legacy.
Alhamdulilah! ✨
During my c-section, I closed my eyes to pray…
Hubby shouted, “Haa! Don’t go babe!” 😭
Could hear the fear in his voice
I yelled back, “I’m not going anywhere ode, I’m just trying to pray!”
“nothing missing, nothing broken”
Everyone burst out laughing.
I told the doctor, “I said don’t let him in, he’s going to distract us.”
Doctor said, “That’s exactly what I need him to be doing — distracting you and gisting.” 😭
This is the best IWD campaign video I’ve seen today 🥺❤️
Beautiful and powerful women ❤️
Happy international women’s day to every woman out there💜
#GiveToGain#IWD2026
1. Breast milk is over 80% water.
2. The first part of the breastmilk is majorly water
3. Babies need all the nutrients they get from the remaining percentage of the breastmilk that is supposed to help them
4. If you give water, baby has no space for breastmilk
5. Baby doesn't get as much nutrients
6. Baby doesn't grow as well.
7. Baby's brain need the breastmilk
8. The amount of water in breastmilk is ALL the water your baby will ever need for the first 6 months
9. That baby deserves better nutrition.
But please do you.
No but you girlies should better change this year and stop introducing the people you like to other people🤣🤣
You will like someone secretly and now introduce them to your friends then start crashing out in private.
I just graduated a few weeks ago. I was class rep all through my stay in UI Law so I knew nearly all my classmates on a personal note.
The ones who worked every last day just to feed and afford the basics.
The ones we had to crowdfund for.
The ones who were in and out of hospital and always called to take excuse because while we’re writing yet another test, they can’t make it because they are on a hospital bed for the umpteenth time that semester.
The ones who got overwhelmed and depressed.
The ones who lost family and/or friends and just couldn’t find their way back.
The family men and women who just had other responsibilities and cant give it as much time as the others.
And it goes on and on…
The most important thing I learnt from being class rep is not leadership or service. It is to give people grace when it comes to these things.
There are still those who do not care and just want to graduate with whatever but mehn, more than half the time, life happened and it takes different forms.
Leave people alone. Let them celebrate their 2:2 if they want. YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT IT TOOK TO GET THERE!
And I really hope you never have to know.
I don’t talk about this often.
A few years into our marriage, my wife fell seriously ill. Doctors said she needed a kidney transplant urgently, and later, part of a liver too. To them it was “medical options.” To me, it was simple.
I didn’t pray to ask if I should do it.
I prayed that God would make me eligible.
When they told me I was a match, I felt relief..not fear. Signing those papers felt lighter than signing our marriage certificate, because this time I wasn’t promising with words, I was promising with flesh 😅.
The surgeries were hard. Recovery was harder. There were nights I couldn’t stand straight, days I questioned my strength. But every time I saw her breathe better, laugh again, regain life …my body felt small compared to the joy.
She still apologizes sometimes.
I still remind her: I didn’t give you organs. I gave you time. ❤️
Marriage isn’t flowers, aesthetics, or online quotes.
Sometimes it’s choosing pain so the person you love can live.
If I had to do it again, I wouldn’t hesitate.
That’s my wife.
That’s my marriage. ❤️
THE GIST…
So I have this very good client. She’s being my client for years. Sometime last year i made a family Aso ebi for her and her mom. After the event she called to hype me as usual n casually said “One of my rich Aunty have being disturbing me for your contact but I didn’t give her cos her Wahala is too much. I don’t want stress Abeg”.
Me; Abeg o. Give her. Make I chop her money.
B; She even reported me to my mum when she found out it was u that made our outfit but I just use laugh to cover up.
Me; Please give her. If I can’t handle her, I will run after the first job. Simple!
Weeks later, she brought her Aunty personally but I was not physically available so I told my staff to measure the woman but she refused..She got angry n I heard her voice in the background shouting that “Why didn’t she say she won’t be around.. I want her to measure me personally” so I told B to give her the phone. I apologized and told her I was not informed they were coming today and we fixed another date.
This time she came alone. The moment I sighted her from the gate I picked my phone and started pretending like I was calling a client bullshit on the phone so she can hear me😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
Me on the fake call; PLEASE MA I HAVE HEARD ENOUGH OF YOUR INSULTS AND DISRESPECT AND I WILL NOT TAKE IT. I AM NOT A CHILD SO IF YOU CAN NOT SPEAK TO ME PROPERLY, I WILL CUT THIS CALL AND YOU WILL DO NOTHING… YOU PAID FOR A SERVICE AND IT WAS DELIVERED. IF THERE IS AN ISSUE, STATE IT AND WE SORT IT OUT. DO NOT SHOUT AT ME… IF THIS IS HOW YOU GO AROUND BULLYING PEOPLE, YOU CAN’T SCARE ME. I AM NOT OKAY TOO SO WHEN YOU ARE READY TO BE CIVIL, CALL ME BACK.
(Then I cut the call angrily)
I then faced the woman, smiled, greeted and apologized for the the last time.. Tell me why she started calming me down n advising me against clients that will stress me n all. I smiled and said “it’s one of those things but I always ensure to speak up and stop working for them”
She is now one of my biggest client. Pays very well and only complained once (about zipper type and we changed it).. She came for pick up last week and her niece called this morning to say her Aunty likes me n she’s shocked we have not fought or reported each other. I just burst laugh n said “I KNOW WHAT I DID”
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Moral of the story; DON’T ALWAYS WAIT FOR PEOPLE TO TEST YOU DIRECTLY. SHOW THEM SAMPLE OF THE EXTENT OF YOUR MADNESS INDIRECTLY 🤭🤭
@tilda___ccc@talk2veee@aproko_doctor I witnessed it at FMC Jabi, recently they had to tell the husband to sign that it his wife that refused blood transfusion should incase anything goes wrong the hospital is not to be held responsible