Maybe the most romantic thing someone can give you isn't butterflies, it's certainty. Knowing a difficult conversation won't make them leave, their affection won't vanish with a bad mood, knowing you don't have to perform to be loved.
My neighbour’s husband told everyone he wanted another child.
He had been saying it for years.
Whenever relatives visited, he would laugh and say, “This house needs one more person.”
His wife would smile and change the subject.
One evening, she finally told him, “I’m done having children.”
He was shocked.
“Done? We agreed on four.”
She replied, “You agreed. I agreed when I was 25. I’m 36 now. I don’t want to start all over again.”
They argued about it for months.
Then one Sunday, the husband stopped sleeping at home.
His wife eventually discovered he had gotten another woman pregnant.
She confronted him.
“You did this because I refused to have another child?”
He said, “I told you what I wanted.”
She started crying.
“You could have left me.”
He looked at her and said, “I didn’t want to leave you. I wanted a child.”
The other woman eventually had the baby.
Then something happened nobody expected.
The husband started begging his wife to forgive him and come back.
She refused.
He kept sending relatives to plead with her.
Finally, she told his elder brother:
“He wanted another child so badly that he destroyed the family he already had.
Now he has the child.
Let him enjoy everything he asked for.”
“Act dumb , men like to teach you new things”
“Turn off your brain and let your man lead”
Whenever I hear phrases like this all that comes to mind is Chimamanda’s quote
“We teach girls to shrink themselves….”
@ZxG_09@callmeMaharani If the only proof that someone is a nice guy is their words and not their action then they are not nice guys. Your not a nice guy if you think you should get a woman's attention and affection because you said hi and then get vugular when you dont
@Clever_Soull@callmeMaharani Respect doesn't mean prioritizing someone over yourself. That's what servitude is, and if that's what you want, just get a dog man
@ChuksEmma947401 Your math is really bad oo cos if a gender make up 54% of a population the other gender make up the remaining 56% na...abi you do mistake
@TheMorbidHobo@dollyqwe1 You're a fool for knowing that isn't enough and yet ask us to stick to it cos preventive measures range from cover yourself, to do not go leave your house to don't go to school to don't go to places men maybe and yet women have been raped despite doing all these