By the way my rule in life is I do not voluntarily participate in my own suffering. And I will ditch anything that tries to make me a willing participant in my own suffering. If I can't exit immediately, just know I'm planning my exit and I will exit at some point.
I see why employers hate Gen Z candidates so much. Imagine your hiring pool being full of “yeah man you gotta let em treat you like a bitch it’s part of the game” to “this job barely covers my bills so watch how you talk to me”
Experience has taught me not to celebrate until I’m at least three months into the job. Being in the wrong work environment is worse than unemployment.
“Men suffer in silence."
No, they don’t. They treat everyone around them like dogshit.
They externalize their feelings onto the women closest to them, usually.
Rebranding yourself is so tea. 🫖🎀 a new look, new habits, new connections, && a whole new mindset. Keep evolving you don’t owe anyone the old version of you. 💕🫶🏼✨
You should study what makes you defensive. The topic you avoid, the joke that irritates you, the question that feels insulting, the feedback you instantly reject. Defensiveness is usually the guard dog sitting in front of a weakness you have not trained yourself to face.