Nobody prepares you for how much quieter you become in your 30s ! You stop needing to be seen, chosen, understood or validated ! You just want to feel rested, regulated, grounded & at peace !
“All men cheat” is a lie that keeps women accepting betrayal. Loyal men exist. Honest men exist. Men who respect the woman they love exist. Never lower your standards because someone normalized disloyalty.
ITS NORMAL TO:
Change careers at 30
Cry and still keep going at 30
Lose friends at 30
Find yourself at 30
Be single at 30
Start therapy at 30
Fall in love at 30
Marry at 30
Have your first child at 30
Growing up is realizing that those random 3am or 4am wake-ups aren’t by accident… they’re a call to pray. Cover your home, your children, and then sit still long enough to hear what God is saying next.
The Bible warns us not to look back at old friendships or any relationships that God has delivered us from. Lot's wife did and literally became stuck in time. My prayer is that when you're tempted to return to the past, the spirit reminds you there's so much more ahead of you!
I don’t celebrate Halloween for the same reason witches and satanists don’t celebrate the resurrection of Jesus. Light has no fellowship with darkness!