Oh’to be disgustingly educated. To have a degree with your name on it. To enter rooms & raise the standard. To know your stuff & to know it well. To have knowledge nobody can take from you. Such a big flex. & most importantly, to be in alignment with God…
My boss is married but I still f— on him for extra perks at work and money. When I got pregnant I told him I’m keeping it. I expected him to snap, but he didn’t. He proposed, got a divorce attorney, and took me to wedding venues and cake tastings. It was the first time I EVER thought about a wedding. He mentioned he wanted it to be perfect and he couldn’t wait to see me in my wedding dress. He said, “I hope you’re not SHOWING on our big day.” I asked for money to end the pregnancy. He was sad, but he said he understood and that I’d be a flawless bride. He took me to the clinic, he pampered me on the way home. One week later, he told me to sign the company’s no-fault employee separation agreement because we were about to get married, and I did. Two weeks after that, he ghosted me. There’s no wedding, I don’t have a job and the engagement ring is fake. I think he fell out of love after the procedure, BUT I also suspect he WANTED me to get rid of the baby and he played me. What do you think happened? How can I get revenge? #JoblessInATL #SBCCHAT
Q5. I’m an emotional woman, and I suffered as a child because I was invisible to my parents; nothing I did would get a rise out of them. I felt like they were quietly counting down the days to kick me out. On my 19th birthday they gave me $1,000 and told me to get TF out. Now I demand emotions from my man—fight me if you love me. Show me some range; if I smack you, smack me back. Then let’s make love and forget about it. I’m dating Dan, he’s an angry man about ALL THINGS except me. When I challenge him, he shuts down. I try to get a rise out of him, but that’s hard to do because he lives on a house boat. 🛶 If I start something, he just leans back and threatens to toss me overboard. I can’t swim, so I back down. I want Dan to fight for me, but I don’t want to drown (I’m serious). How do I find a balance here? Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q4. I’m short but I’m not considered a little person. I was thrilled when Anjelica sought me out at the club, bought me drinks and took me to her car for fun. We’ve linked several times but I’ve never been to her house. I know she has a man there. I’m enjoying her company, so I don’t ask questions. I checked her social media and sure enough, she has a regular-sized man at home. She also has online connections with little people—mostly men—who comment on her thirsty posts. I’d like to be more than a secret but I feel like she’s keeping me in a box. I feel like she has a fetish for little men and she’s just using me. Before I could ask her about what we’re doing together (in the long run), she introduced me to a male and female little couple and said we should all f-ck on her birthday. (They did it last year). I don’t want this, but I don’t want to lose her either. Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q3. I booked a hotel room for me & my girlfriend to relax before I went home to my wife. Girlfriend wanted the reward points from my purchase to be applied to her rewards account. Hotel lady said no. My girl called her every “broke b!tch” in the book and escalated the situation until the manager called police. The police REALLY pissed her off; she pushed a female officer and was arrested. We were also trespassed from the hotel chain. 😟She’s resisting arrest. I’m asking her, begging her to calm down. I’m also creeping towards the exit. I sat her purse on the counter just as the female officer put her on the floor. Girlfriend yells: “Don’t put me on my stomach, B!tch, I’M PREGNANT!” Me: “What?!” I’m doing a full sprint 💨to my car now, cuz, What?! Anyway she’s mad AF cuz I refuse to bail her out and she threatened to tell my wife everything. I prefer that she stays locked up cuz I need time to get ahead of this to save my marriage…what to do? Help! #SBCCHAT