79% of men will apologize even when they���re right… just to restore peace.
Not because they’re weak.
Not because they’re wrong.
Because they value the unity of the relationship more than winning the argument.
Most women still don’t get it.
Pride is the real relationship killer.
And today’s women are drowning in it.
Once you learn how to shop directly from China, E.g Temù or shien your wardrobe changes completely. Call me cheap I don't care I ain't rich, I don't do fraud.😭
It's knowing what to search for.
Here's my style after making plenty of mistakes.
1. T-shirts:
Skip 100% polyester unless you're buying gym wear.
Instead, search:
• 100% Cotton
• Combed Cotton
• Heavyweight Cotton
• 240-300 GSM Cotton
• Premium Cotton
• Mercerized Cotton
The heavier the GSM, the thicker and more premium the shirt usually feels.
2. Jeans:
Denim Jeans
Temu is surprisingly good for denim if you know what to search.
Search:
• Denim Jeans
• Cotton Denim
• Raw Denim
• Selvedge Denim (if available)
• 98% Cotton + 2% Elastane
• 99% Cotton
Avoid jeans with high polyester content. The more cotton, the better they'll age and feel.
3. Body-hug clothing:
Search:
• Ribbed Knit
• Modal
• Viscose Blend
• Cotton-Spandex Blend
They hold their shape much better than cheap polyester.
4. Hoodies
Search:
• 400 GSM
• French Terry
• Cotton Fleece
• Heavyweight Hoodie
5. Chains
Search:
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Titanium Steel
• PVD Gold Plated
• Vacuum Plated
These are far more resistant to fading than ordinary fashion jewelry.
6. Earrings
Search:
• 925 Sterling Silver
• 316L Stainless Steel
• Hypoallergenic
• Moissanite (if you're buying stones)
7. Scarves
Search:
• Mulberry Silk
• Silk Blend
• Cashmere Blend
• Wool Blend
• Viscose
Avoid the shiny, thin polyester scarves if you're after a premium look.
8. Loafers
Search:
• Genuine Leather
• Cow Leather
• Full Grain Leather (rare but worth looking for)
• Rubber Outsole
9. Sneakers
Search:
• Rubber Outsole
• EVA Midsole
• Breathable Mesh
• Leather Upper
• Stitched Sole
Pictures lie a lot
The description usually tells the truth.
Here's how I shop:
1. Read the material composition before anything else.
2. Sort by Most Orders or Best Selling, not cheapest.
3. Only buy products with lots of reviews or pictures or even better when a Nigerian has purchased it before they always tell the truth.
4. Read the 1-star reviews first. They'll tell you what the seller won't.
5. Look at customer photos, not the product photos.
6. Check the weight of the product. Better quality clothing is often heavier.
7. Read the size chart. Don't assume your Nigerian size matches.
8. If the title has words like "luxury," "premium," or "designer" but the material is 100% polyester, not everything but still move on.
Your best friend isn't the product picture.
It's the material, the reviews, and the customer photos.
That's how you separate the gems from the junk.
I hope this help.
Things are to expensive for a country this poor.
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When you're with a woman, enjoy her. Laugh, talk, but stop planning a future with her in your head. She's not your wife. She's not the one. She's just the girl you're with right now. Stay present.
That's modern dating. The girl you're imagining forever with today might be gone in six months. The moment that you lock her into your future, you risk losing yourself.
Enjoy her while she's there. If she stays, she stays. If she leaves, you're still standing.
That's power.
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Virginity was given to every woman on a silver platter. She didn't earn it. She wasn't required to work for it. Her only responsibility was to preserve it.
A man's success is the complete opposite. No man becomes successful by accident. He has to work day & night, sacrifice comfort, endure rejection, take risks & build his value from the ground up.
He can't lie in bed & wake up successful.
That's the difference. A woman's virginity is a gift she receives.
A man's success is a prize he must earn.
Enrique said this yesterday about Kvara, which made me look at Kvara old comps.
This is actually a good learning point, yesterday at least 2 defenders were ALWAYS attracted to him...sometimes 3.
This is a trait that you can't count by stats. Kvara is a special footballer. His numbers doesn't justify his brilliance.
When he plays, due to him the team always has an extra man free.
This is the profile United needs.
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@superjourno Are we going to defend le world cup yini??😏😦 why so many defenders 🤔😂
We won't make it past group stages here.. Lol mzansi issa joke, they're just going to add numbers
Unfortunately for Thapelo Morena due to injury 💔💔
UMKHEHLO is a Zulu tradition pre-wedding ceremony. The ceremony is done for a woman who is about to get married and takes place after Lobola has been paid. Through this ceremony, she is basically saying "goodbye" to her family.
The groom buys the cow for the ceremony and the
In a normal country with leaders that care for its people, that deals with issues proactively, President Ramaphosa would have picked up by now that there is a possible civil war bubbling in the nation due to citizens anger about illegal migrants, something that has been a ticking time bomb for a while, and gathered his Ministers of GNU, and SPEAK TO THE NATION! 😭
He would get them out of their offices and say let us please go and address the nation, call the March and March people, hear them out, strategically place Ntate Hlabisa there from IFP a bue le Jacinta le bo Ngizwe le Phakela ka siZulu ukuthi kungenzwa njani, behlise umoya, come up with practical plans or explain whatever processes they need to explain. No, I'm not tribalising, I'm thinking practically.
Instead of them wishing the problem away and exacerbating it with Ntshaveni being upset, rightfully so for being told to address the crowd in isiZulu, ending up saying iSilo must first learn Tshivenda and Sepedi before she can speak isiZulu...and left it at that. Not helping the situation.
Assign Lamola to get a process in motion to speak to counterparts in other African nations, call Ambassadors in, akere ke Minister of International Relations and COOPERATION, get countries that can fetch their people to do so, to Cooperate to deal with the situation.
Crack the whip on the Home Affairs minister Schreiber to wake up and do his job. I don't even know though where he will start that one. But do something!
Instead, whereever they are, I can bet they know about this June 30 deadline. They are meeting with Ntshaveni as Minister of Intelligence, Mom Angie, Defence, Njengele Holomisa, and Acting Professor of Police to design a reactive strategy of policing the situation when it blows up on their faces.
Or, they are not even doing that, they go about with business as usual, as if they don't know what's happening, that Somalians have killed an activist Thato Molosankwe in North West. May Thato's soul rest in peace. 💔
No, they are chilled, they hold their National Orders Awards, they'll have Gayton excited to host June 16 Rally and jump up and down the stage, sing all praise to the President, make their nice speeches. Come crisis time, they'll deploy the police and the army to come and fight the fires, and it will be too late. People will die on both sides, it will be a mess.
We'll get that statement they normally type from a template "The Presidency condemns the killing of...and notes with serious concern blah blah." 🙄 I'm tired of this government and it's leaders. 😒