you will meet some people who've gone through the most fucked up things and they will still be kind and that will really make you realize that it's up to you to choose what type of person you want to be
Especially when you’re a good person. They love how it feels to be genuinely valued by you until receiving your energy requires responsibility and accountability.
You have to fall in love with her in different versions. The young her, the tired her, the pregnant her, the ambitious her, the difficult her, the woman she becomes with time. That’s the real secret.
The thing that fascinates me about this thread is how money can change people’s perception about you.
You become the wonderful son, the thoughtful brother, the intentional boyfriend and it’s not like you changed, money just gave you the ability to realise your values
The privileged kids are angry that chefabbys is comparing prices in our neighboring countries to the overpriced nonsense going on in this country.
These were the same people who started that “target market” stupidity and here we are today.
You don't talk to someone you like everyday because you like them. You do so because constant communication is a requirement for building trust, security and connection in a relationship.
I think we live in a society where people have a certain projection of how successful you should be. They want you to do well, but only to a certain extent. The moment you start exceeding the expectations they had for you, that’s when admiration can turn into resentment.