Don’t let your good heart keep you stuck in situations that are breaking you down. Just because you care don’t mean you gotta tolerate what’s hurting you.
Boundaries change everything. The moment you start setting them and standing on them, your whole life shifts. Every part of it gets better when you finally protect your peace. ‼️
I never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman. And if you can’t find her, don’t use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.
I've tasted being the bigger person and i've tasted matching energy. i highly recommend choosing people who never make you act out of character. there's wisdom in remaining grounded.
@nickimoraa It was a test’ is crazy… you failed your own exam 💀 Nobody’s auditioning for a relationship like it’s a scholarship program. Take your clipboard and go home.
Avoid people who try to make you apologize for your negative reaction to their toxic behavior. They want you to apologize for your "overreaction," so they don't have to be accountable for their initial toxic behavior - "You're so mean for making me feel bad about hurting you."
There are certain situations that God has to put you through to make his word more tangible to you. You'll read that God is the light in the dark, but you won't fully understand until you're in the dark and he's your light. You'll read that he's the redeemer and restorer, but you won't grasp it until he puts you in a situation where he has to redeem and restore you. You'll read that he's faithful to his word, a comforter, but until you're in a situation where God's comfort is the only comfort - all these things will just be a distant concept to you!
Highly recommend letting people know you’re capable of madness from time to time. Especially as a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.. let people know you can go from 0- Thanos real quick…
Don’t take it personal when the very ones you thought would love you, support you, protect you become the very ones who try to break you.
Understand it was never personal it was positioning.
What’s so amazing about God is He will use the very people who hurt you the most to push you straight into your purpose.
When the Bible says, “What the enemy meant for evil, God turned it for good,” that wasn’t just a cute verse. That was a promise.
They thought it would break you.
They thought it would stop you.
They thought it would bend you.
But God already knew what they were going to do before they did it.
Let me say this: God does not need your help defending you. He sees. He knows. He will handle it.
Because the same people who tried to count you out are about to watch God count you in.
And when He blesses you… it won’t be quiet.
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love
breathe. this season isn’t punishing you, it’s protecting what you’re becoming. the waiting is not empty, it is divinely rearranging your life in ways you cannot see yet. trust what is being kept from you as much as what is coming to you. both are working in your favor.
I admire the girls that remain unbothered. Through the rumors, the gossip and animosity. Never addressing anything, letting people believe what they want and continuing on with life in grace. Cause why give into the misery, lies and insecurity
The man or woman you choose to be your partner affects everything in your life: your mental health, your peace of mind, the love inside of you, your happiness, how you get through tragedies, your success, how your children will be raised, and so much more. Choose very wisely.