Iβve been trying to add my Telegram links to my bio link page, but they r not accepting them either. Which is honestly ridiculous, especially considering they actually have a Telegram icon! You add the link, and it simply gets rejected.
Instagram doesnβt allow Telegram links either on story , so where are we actually supposed to share them? Itβs getting ridiculous that even having a Telegram link on your own bio page is becoming an issue. π€·πΌββοΈ
One of the great ironies of sex work is that the better you are at it, the less anyone realizes how much skill it requires.
People see beauty, charisma, sexuality, fantasy. They don't see the years spent developing emotional intelligence, negotiation skills, risk assessment, financial literacy, marketing expertise, and the ability to manage wildly different client needs while maintaining your own sense of self. It is an *extraordinary* degree of psychological literacy that sex work requires.
Understanding what someone wants is often the easy part. Understanding what they're actually communicating, what they need to feel safe, where their boundaries are, and how to navigate the difference between fantasy and reality is an entirely different skill set.
And all of that happens while managing our own boundaries, safety, emotional resources, and business interests.
That's not effortless intimacy or easy money, it is highly skilled labor. (And that is precisely why we should all be charging more. )
Not quite ready for winter. Iβd much rather trade grey skies and foggy weather π«οΈ for sunshine, poolside afternoons and a little luxury somewhere warm. Dubai π¦πͺ is on my mindβ¦ perhaps a little getaway for a few days this month. Someone convince me this is a good idea! πβοΈπ₯
Not quite ready for winter. Iβd much rather trade grey skies and foggy weather π«οΈ for sunshine, poolside afternoons and a little luxury somewhere warm. Dubai π¦πͺ is on my mindβ¦ perhaps a little getaway for a few days this month. Someone convince me this is a good idea! πβοΈπ₯
FYI: Iβm now immediately blocking anyone who DMs me asking how to see me. Iβve repeatedly explained on this account how to find my website and contact me through the appropriate channels. At this point, ignoring those instructions is a choice, and Iβm no longer entertaining it.
Additionally, unless weβve already met or have an established DM conversation, I will no longer be opening or responding to new DMs from men.
My DMs are not my booking department, and my boundaries are not optional.