i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.
imagine having someone actually care about you. imagine having someone seriously consider your opinion on things, actually pay attention and listen when you talk, think about you when you're away, try to help you, want to spend time with you, value you, enjoy your presence, etc
so cruel yet so fascinating how you'll have to literally rewire your brain after a certain event while the other person goes on to live their life completely unaffected