This is the difference between a son and daughter. A daughter will hear her mum had a daughter at 19(meaning she was pregnant at 18) and cry for the person she'd have become. A son will hear of it and use it as a blueprint for what should be.
HR: We noticed you took a personal day last Friday.
Me: It was approved.
HR: It was.
Me: So what's the issue?
HR: You completed several work tasks while you were off.
Me: I answered two urgent emails.
HR: Correct.
Me: Because my manager said they couldn't wait until Monday.
HR: That's in the email chain.
Me: So I helped the company on my day off.
HR: Yes.
Me: And now we're having a meeting about it?
Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. They will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it's easier to paint you as the villain.
So nobody can come up with counterfeit cars? I really donโt mind driving a Lambogigi Urusco or a Ranger Rovovo I should just be able to afford it๐ญ