@Adasu_d_gr8 Exploring the voice ur mom used for ur dad is a real justification that something is off during upbringing, nevertheless don't take same pattern.
@jon_d_doe That's gross misconduct in the banking industry, I guess the supervisor might have given her caution letter before now. Infact most banks don't allow the use of phone during work hour for mostly cso's and telllers
It is not your fault if you were born into a poor family. You had no say in your parents' marital decisions and finances. However, it is your fault and a shame if you are going into a relationship with your mate or senior brother's mate and putting your father's responsibility on them.
Regardless of your father's finacial reality, you are his responsibility. The pressure you're mounting on your mates, mount it on your old man. You cannot be understanding of your father's struggle or financial limitations, and be brokeshaming your age mates or killing them with pressure to foot your bills. If it is easy, why are you not footing your own bills yourself? Do you actually sit down to think these things through?
You say if he loves you, he would do it. Does your father not love you? Why is he not doing it? You call your dad the best dad but absolve him of irresponsibility. But your peer that you chose to date, which presupposes intention to love and cherish, you're judging him by his ability or inability to foot your bill. How shameless!
You say you don't want to sell your body for sex. But you're entering relationship to do just that. The whole point of a relationship is to love and to cherish, not to put your father's responsibility on your partner. If you want to sell sex, please do it. I'm too liberal to judge. Everyone is trying to survive. But don't enter relationship with the goal of wrecking your mate by mounting pressure you and your parents cannot carry, on him. Talmbout "if he wants to, he will." Don't you want to do it for yourself? Why have you not done it?
It is not your fault if you were born into a poor family. You had no say in your parents' marital decisions and finances. However, it is your fault and a shame if you are going into a relationship with your mate or senior brother's mate and putting your father's responsibility on them.
Regardless of your father's finacial reality, you are his responsibility. The pressure you're mounting on your mates, mount it on your old man. You cannot be understanding of your father's struggle or financial limitations, and be brokeshaming your age mates or killing them with pressure to foot your bills. If it is easy, why are you not footing your own bills yourself? Do you actually sit down to think these things through?
You say if he loves you, he would do it. Does your father not love you? Why is he not doing it? You call your dad the best dad but absolve him of irresponsibility. But your peer that you chose to date, which presupposes intention to love and cherish, you're judging him by his ability or inability to foot your bill. How shameless!
You say you don't want to sell your body for sex. But you're entering relationship to do just that. The whole point of a relationship is to love and to cherish, not to put your father's responsibility on your partner. If you want to sell sex, please do it. I'm too liberal to judge. Everyone is trying to survive. But don't enter relationship with the goal of wrecking your mate by mounting pressure you and your parents cannot carry, on him. Talmbout "if he wants to, he will." Don't you want to do it for yourself? Why have you not done it?
A woman asked her grandmother:
"How did you stay loyal to one man for 52 years?"
Her grandmother laughed and said:
"Because I understood one thing about men that most women learn too late."
She then explainedβ¦
@Prince_dc21_ Is your greed that made u to lose a good man as u mentioned, at the mention of abroad man every other relationship na wash........ Karma won't visit him.