Maybe it’s not burn out. Maybe it’s a sign you’re unappreciated and doing work that doesn’t provide you with a sense of meaning or purpose. Maybe it’s your body saying: no more of this.
Children who grew up in dysfunctional, chaotic, or emotionally neglectful environments become adults who seek love, validation, or approval from people not capable of giving it.
If we made the police academy a 4-year program I bet we'd get rid of a lot of the "bad apples." I don't understand how a lawyer has to go to school for 8 years to understand the law enough to practice it, but it only takes 6 months to learn it enough to enforce it.
Today is one of those days where I am willing to clean out the fridge but god bless it I will not wash out these dirty Tupperware 😒 the urge to throw it out and buy new ones is real lol
Healing for the trophy child involves:
- understanding mistakes a natural part of life and help us grow and evolve
- understanding accomplishments or failures don't define who we are
- learning to meet our own needs
- connecting with out authentic self