Just because you're healing doesn't mean you have to let the people who hurt you back into your life. Just because you increase your emotional intelligence doesn't mean you have to take on people's emotions, energies, and problems. Keep leveling up and the world will adjust.
People talk about how great it is to end a toxic relationship. But no one talks about the hardest relationship after ending a toxic one is your relationship with yourself because you have to heal and be honest with yourself about how much you participated in your own suffering.
Don’t let fear overtake your mind. Remind yourself about all of the things you promised yourself to achieve. Go after these things, you are more than capable. Don’t allow fear to stall you. Keep persevering, you got it in you! 🤍
Stay away from people who refuse to see the toxic patterns within themselves. Patterns don't lie. Whatever you tolerate will continue. Say "no" to low-quality relationships that will end when you stop tolerating and settling because you remember who you are and what you deserve.
If you look back, you'll see that every situation that Allah has brought you into, has either changed you, helped you grow, made you stronger, taught you a lesson, or made you a better person. Everything He does, has a purpose.
Life is like a party. You invite people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you and some laugh at you. But in the end, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. These people are your true friends. They are the only ones who matter.
The older you get, the more you choose calm over chaos and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you, and your peace becomes your highest priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart, and soul.