jordan peterson on choosing a partner for marriage:
1. Attraction isn't optional. it's weird and biological. scientists once rated men by how symmetrical their faces were, then had them wear the same t-shirt for a day. women rated the symmetrical men's body odor as more attractive. smell alone gave it away.
2. after attraction, trust is everything. no marriage survives without it. you have to be able to tell each other the truth.
3. think of marriage as handcuffing yourself to someone. you tell them the truth, they tell you the truth, and neither of you gets to run away. that's what forces you to actually grow instead of hiding.
4. our culture massively undervalues marriage. it's roughly a third of your life. kids are another third. skipping either one is a bigger mistake than people realize.
5. look for someone who'd be a good mother. if a woman's in her mid-twenties and still doesn't know she wants kids, that's usually a sign something's off psychologically. not always. but usually.
Kau bayangkan @RTM_Malaysia bayar berjuta ringgit beli hak penyiaran piala dunia 2026
Tapi si kesial ni dengan bangga dia siarkan secara rasmi di live tiktok menyebabkan ramai orang satu dunia tengok live dia
aku harap RTM boleh saman kesial ni.
@ashwadismail@fahmi_fadzil
Remind to myself & my keturunan, never kahwin dengan warga asing yang datang malaysia untuk bekerja, unless kalau warga asing tu macam lionel messi, tibeh
Klau jumpa orang baik. Hargaila. Jangan tinggalakn semata nak keseronokan. Last last you asyik jadikan dia standard untuk setiap lelaki yang you jumpa. ☹️
Akan ada sejuta org yang nampak lagi baik, bagus dari partner you. Tapi mungkin takkan ada satu orang pun yang boleh tolerate perangai toxic you selain partner you.
I tinggalkan lelaki yg ikhlas utk keseronokan. Sekarang. Nak jumpa lelaki baik pun dah mcm bare minimum utk i ☹️
هذه القضية المرعبة الاكثر تداولا في تايلاند الان:
رجل استرالي يدعى سيمون (46 عام) سافر الى تايلاند وهناك التقى بفتاه تدعى نونغ (17 عام) وهنا وهم يد بيد يمشون للغرفه. بعد فتره استنكر اصدقائها اختفائها المفاجئ ابغلوا الشرطة وعند فحص كاميرات المراقبة وجدوها تدخل الغرفه ولا تخرج منها و الرجل يخرج وهو يسحب حقيبة سفر سوداء
داخل الغرفه وجدت الشرطة اثار شجار ودم وبعد بحث 15 ساعه وجدوا الرجل في المطار يشتري تذاكر طيران وعلى وشك العودة لاستراليا
عند القبض عليه كان فيه اثار خدوش ومقاومة على رقبته وذراعية وبعد تتبع الحقيبة وجدوها ملقاه في غابة صغيرة ووجدوا الضحية بداخلها
انكر في البداية وبعد الضغط اعترف والسبب انهم اتفقا على مبلغ 1000 بات وفي الغرفه اكتشف انها في فترة الدورة الشهرية فطلب تخفيض السعر ل 500 بات وهنا بدأ الخلاف وقال انه دافع عن نفسه
استفز الناس في تايلاند بروده في الاعتراف والاعتذار لعائلة الضحية بدون اي ندم واضح (اخر المقطع)
Pompuan cantik dan helok ni bersepah.
Tapi lelaki yang helok dan berjaya memang makin pupus.
Kalau jumpa lelaki begitu, cherish him.
Biasanya Allah hantar seumur hidup sekali je.
“A lady that doesn’t give to you, should not get from you. The reason why it’s easy for a woman to walk out from a relationship is because she didn’t invest much.” — Apostle Johnson Suleman
You can love someone deeply. You can care about their well being. You can want the best for them. But if being with them leaves you anxious, drained, and constantly on edge, that is not love. That is a slow erosion of your peace. Leaving someone you still have feelings for is one of the hardest things you will ever do. Because your heart will whisper "stay." Your memories will replay the good times. Your hope will tell you "maybe they will change."
But your body knows. Your nervous system knows. The anxiety. The sleepless nights. The knot in your stomach. The feeling of walking on eggshells. That is your body telling you what your heart is too afraid to admit.
Self love is not just bubble baths and affirmations. It is the hard choices. It is walking away from people who are not good for you, even when you still love them. It is choosing peace over attachment. It is choosing yourself over a fantasy.