In reality, you should be able to pick a woman out of a crowd and have a great relationship with her.
Women are naturally predisposed to conformity. It is their role to conform to the man they are with. It is what makes them both content.
Unfortunately, we’ve told women the naturally nonconformist men should conform. And we wonder why relationships are garbage.
I have the ability to easily engage in casual sex with multiple women who are relatively attractive.
I cannot bring myself to do it, because I think about the long term consequences of it, and am turned off by the prospect.
Is this a me problem?