NotReallyStacy

Gen X Mama~ Celtic Pagan Witch~ Passenger Princess~ 420~ History nerd~ Horror~ Travel~ Tattoos~ Mental Health~ Nature~
No dating/hook ups. No DMs

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

Updating for new followers:
*If you know me IRL- No you don't! 😂🤫

*I will not f/b accts that are only porn, politics or religion
& I 🚫 accts that are full of hate or negative energy.

*I only DM ppl I know & interact with, ask first or risk 🚫

*Sex themed posts aren't an invitation & friendly isn't flirting. Don't be gross and kill the vibe. We are here to have fun so just enjoy and don't make it weird.

*This is not a dating app, I'm not a content creator. I don't want to be your 🦄, I won't vote for your scam link. 🤣

*Be kind or be 🚫Lighten the fuck up. Life is short.

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

Good morning.
Let's talk boundaries real quick.

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

@swat_ez Yes, I fully expect adult men with fully formed brains to respect my boundaries.

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

Heeeerrreeee we gooooooo 🤭🙌

[lava dog @lavadog56]

@NotReallyStacy Oh dms for sure that sounds like a great time

[soulful 💕 @QuotesFee]

one look from you shatters my composure

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

@swat_ez All ignoring my boundaries, though. 🤷‍♀️

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Saturday
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Set your reminders and dont miss out!!!
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[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

@WELSHOTC The years are 74 to 76 🙏🙏

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If you are a Capricorn w heavy Saturn placements- I need to know who you are. 🤔

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@DanielR69803813 🤣🤣🤭🤭

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I didn't forget. 🤭🥰

[David Gardner @Chevyman6781]

@NotReallyStacy Don't forget what you were going to do last night 🤭🤭

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@seedless61 The air carries the message

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@seedless61 🤣🤭 we are projectors, amplifiers, healers, and eachers being the water bearer is just a symbol of pouring the knowledge or healing into others.

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@NightEntity69 I was married to a scorpio for 20 yrs LOL

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They may not fit everyone- but the ones I know personally these are kinda spot on. ♓️♏️♌️♉️

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@BigPapaPK Leo's can be nasty when their egos are bruised! LOL

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@EddiebroRon I don't have dm notifications on. I have no problem ignoring them. Like I said, it shows me who respects boundaries lol

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

Yeah, if I didn't okay the dm or we were not already established chatters, It is too much. I cannot keep all the information for all these ppl straight in my head and be a good friend at all. I have hurt feelings bc I missed a message in the thread somewhere or bc I didn't give thoughtful enough replies. And just bc I tell someone they may dm so I can answer a private question or help them w something, that doesn't give them free reign to keep private messaging me. I had to put up firm boundaries and if ppl don't like it, they aren't my people. It helps me see who respects me and who doesn't when they say " I see it says no dms but...." that's a middle finger. lol.

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All the time. The rude ones or ones liek I read aren't really even the worst. The emotional manipulators are the worst. I have had men trauma dump on me and when I say "Oh, I am sorry, but that is too big for me to handle, can you reach out to someone you know or a helpline?" and they respond with "I don't have anyone, but thanks for nothing, maybe I will still be here tomorrow" or some variation of that. I have had women dm me asking if their bf's have messaged me or to give the "hey girly" message to me as soon as trusted a man. Today alone, I have received 15 dms and one is a group message with over 99 messages I have to catch up on. I get messages asking If ppl have made me mad bc I am not replying to their dms or comments on my page. I get men asking if they can tell me about traumatic things that have happened to them, men bitching about their wives or gfs (instant block and public shaming when that happens!!!) Men telling me that when I am ready to date, I am theirs and they detail out our entire future together, including trips we will take and who is going to live where etc. I have ppl pissed and thinking I am rude for not messaging. I have had 4 men ignore my boundaries when i say I am not ready for anything other than friendship and then get angry with ME when it doesn't go beyond friendship. lol
I work a really high burn out job w a lot of vicarious trauma. I do not want to be a social worker off the clock. I am not getting paid to be everyone's dm therapist. I am not here to live a dm fairytale romance w no real life connection. lol. When I stop replying or don't reply, I end up losing a friend. Then I realize, most of them only hoped it would go further, they weren't really a "Friend". To be honest, there are days I want to deactivate bc of the pressure ppl put on me in the dms for their emotional wellbeing. I don't want to dm bc I need a space to unwind and dms are almost more homework lol.

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

@EddiebroRon

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@EddiebroRon I laughed at that one too bc its always about the boobs. 🤣🤣 they all test the waters eventually!!!

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

@Chevyman6781 @lukebryan @kfc @lukebryan, dont let me down. Are you gonna let @kfc show you up??

[NotReallyStacy @NotReallyStacy]

@Chevyman6781 @lukebryan I think he would enjoy the ride, he just has to hang in til the end for his part. 🤭🤣🤣 I mean- @kfc replied to me once, ya never know. 🤣🤣

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@lavadog56 🤣🤣🤣🤣