Nothing wrong with “promoting “ your discord, but if you have to CONSTANTLY talk down or shit on other discords to hype yours and get traction then you really not like that in my opinion . Let your work do ALL the talking for you. Sucking ya own d_ck is never a good look.
Any man who’ll go against himself to appease women who don’t respect him is a sign of a man who lacks guidance and leadership. You’re too influenced by and naive to women.