usually if ppl have few/no friends it’s bc they struggle w/ social skills, depression, or have a busy schedule. none of those are moral failings. however I find it consistent that highly manipulative & selfish ppl are often charismatic & have huge friend groups who enable them
guy with mommy issues: i like being called good boy
girl with mommy issues: this wretched earth has no place for me but i am enslaved to my flesh and kin for why do i feel obligated to exist if my only purpose is to decay
Your heart is not a state secret. You are meant to declare allegiances. You are meant to have favourites. Write the letter. Miss the train. Stay up until dawn talking. You should be caught red-handed loving something, someone.
You want the young officer to sacrifice his life for the love of the Nation, but you don’t want him to express his love for his fiancée.
In the Army we say ‘Youngster nahi karega, toh kaun karega’.
If you can not find a fault in his professional capabilities, don’t do this nuktachini for such a pure gesture of love and belonging.
Military equipment has been on display during many ‘Know your Army’ exhibitions around the country. The students and non military personnel have clicked pics with it showing pride and love for the Army. So, please don’t bring in the national security angle into this.
Let the young soldier do his national duty with pride and honour 👍
Jai Hind 🇮🇳
A soldier proposed to the woman he loves at his passing out parade. One of the most significant days of his life. And people are angry.
This is what dead inside looks like. Any public expression of love is suddenly performative, inappropriate, attention seeking. We have collectively become so hollow that genuine human emotion makes us uncomfortable and critical.
We expect our defence personnel to bleed on borders, stay away from families for months, miss births and deaths and anniversaries without complaint. But one man choosing the happiest moment of his career to also choose the person he loves and suddenly it is a violation of some sacred code nobody wrote down.
Let the soldier be human. Not everything is a performance. Sometimes it is just a person who survived the hardest training of his life and wanted the woman he loves standing next to him at the finish line. If that bothers you, the problem is entirely yours.
She didn't "flee." She was a woman who suffered 11 years of rape and violent abuse and then left a country that is set to release her rapist in 2 years. I hope she finds happiness and peace wherever she is.