And To the women that have suffered at the hands of Gender Based Violence.
May the future hold better for you, may you meet kindness and grace.
And most importantly, may your abusers get what they deserve. 💜💜💜💜💜💜
The cheat code nobody talks about: Being reliable. Answer emails quickly. Show up on time. Do what you said. Keep small promises. Remember details. In a world where everyone is flaky, reliability looks like genius. It's not talent.
i evaluate my behavior every night like i will literally be in the shower like “i didn’t like how i responded to that today but tomorrow i will be better”
When Lauryn Hill said “it could all be so simple”she wasn't lying. Reciprocity between two people who want something to work is so simple. It's as easy as breathing.
a lesson i learned this year is that a person's capacity for growth is directly linked to how much truth they can face about themselves without running away
no one talks about the personality shift as you get older. where you no longer want to be impressive, you want to be rested. you want to be regulated and completely unavailable to anything that drains you