I wanna be kissed, rubbed, grabbed and hugged all day. I’m so affectionate. I like compliments and forehead kisses. Open my door for me. Ask me if I’m okay, do I wanna ride with you, take random pictures and videos cause you want memories of me in your phone. Like LOVE ME!!!
I really struggle with forgiveness and I think it’s cause I give so much grace that when I finally decide I’ve had enough, you’ve probably done wayyy too much
Once you realize you’re falling back into old patterns, take some time to breathe. Give grace to yourself. Acknowledge without shame.
Then make your pivot.
I think being comfortable with - no, actually enjoying - how you look w/out laid hair, nails, lashes, makeup, etc. is important for self esteem. Your natural state is not lesser. There’s nothing wrong w/ wearing makeup. There is something wrong w/ looking down on folks who don’t.