I was texting with a former situationship today, and her story is very relevant to this tweet.
She's traveling abroad and last night went on a Hinge date with a guy who took her to a nice dinner at one of the best restaurants in that city. Great conversation, kiss on the cheek. She described him as a "great guy, true gentleman who was thoughtful, considerate, respectful."
Later that night she goes to a bar with her girlfriend she's traveling with. She meets a guy at the bar, and a hour later they are back at his hotel room and proceed with a four hour sex session. Very little talking, she knows almost nothing about him. At 5 AM, she goes back to her hotel room to pack and catch a flight.
The bottom line is this: the latter guy enjoyed a deep level of intimacy with the girl, one that eluded the guy who invested on a nice date and acted "right". And although they won't see each other again, he enjoyed the night FAR moreso than the other guy.
Guys have caught onto this due to Red Pill, social media, and other information flows. This is why looksmaxxing is a big thing: guys realized that improving looks is higher ROI than working on personality or character. And it's also why they are wary of expensive dates early on before they have received validation signals of the girls' attraction to them.
For the record, I in no way judge women for doing this. I am deeply anti-slut shaming and am about as liberal as one can be when it comes to sex. I do care about intersexual relations as it has massive implications on society across the board. And I think women are doing a disservice by attacking men for simply bringing up what's actually going on & talking honestly about it.
Ladies if you wanna date a man who works hard and pays the bills you need to practice learning how to orgasm in 10 minutes or less. Nobody has time to be working 80hr weeks and you’re taking 20 minutes and more than 2 positions to get off. Grow up
it only took 100 years of women having rights to ruin everything
every civilization in history, in every corner of the world subjugated and oppressed women for a reason
The reason third world countries have high birth rates is that the men in those societies still have a higher status than the women.
If you give women the same or a higher status than men the birth rate will massively fall like what is happening in Europe.
When a woman’s partner isn’t very sexually attractive, around her most fertile days she feels a stronger pull toward other men for their genes, while men unconsciously detect or respond to heightened infidelity risk and show more affection. Those with highly attractive mates didn’t show the same shift (potentially satisfied with in-pair “good genes”). Knowing this helps us choose partners and build family life intentionally. This also supports the idea that ancestral women may have pursued a mixed strategy—securing resources/commitment from a primary partner while seeking genetic benefits from extra-pair copulations during fertile periods, especially if the main mate fell short on “sexy” traits. It fits broader ovulatory shift research (e.g., preferences for masculine features, symmetry) but highlights conditional, partner-dependent effects.
Men cannot fix relationships by talking about issues. Women are too emotional and reactionary. They blow up small issues when men want to communicate and negotiate problems. Relationship issues should be solved by the woman’s imagination from abandonment anxiety, not open communication. Don’t talk it out, hold strong frame and let the woman talk to herself.