@brightafia People crave validation so intensely that they’ll rewrite their own memories and values to fit in with whatever group gives them the most approval.
It’s wild how rarely we admit that most of our “strong opinions” are just social camouflage.
@Tech_babby Some of us are building quietly in the background instead of broadcasting every step. Constant visible hustle isn’t a flex sustainable focus and real results are.
Solid point. Messi endured 16+ years of brutal criticism, multiple final losses, and even quitting the national team only to finally deliver after massive struggles.
If it was truly “rigged,” they wouldn’t have let him suffer that long first. The excuses are getting tired.
Argentina had won two World Cup (in 1978 and 1986) before Messi's debut, and had won about 14 Copa America titles. It took the national almost 40 years to win another trophy, fourty good years in 2022. Now despite all Messi's accomplishments since his debut, that is, 35 titles in 17 seasons, Messi also won his first major international title in 2021 which was the Copa America, taking 16 years into his career, and almost 17 years to add the World Cup trophy to his collection.
Now during his years of Int'l trophy drought he was heavily criticized even by Argentines, especially after missing the crucial PK in 2016.
Messi lost four international finals back to back, almost quit the team, and had to struggle to win his first Copa America and World Cup, but all of a sudden it was rigged for him? Be serious.
Parents brought him into this world, so they have a responsibility to guide him toward self-reliance not enable entitlement. At 21, he’s old enough to contribute or face the consequences; kicking him out might be the wake-up call he needs.
Marrying into a family where they don’t like you is how you end up miserable in your marriage.
The only way you’re going to be happy in that marriage is if your husband or wife does not speak to their family.
Disagree all you want,
But the moment you agree to marry someone, you need their family’s affection.
This is Africa, miss me with those western ideological sentiments.
Marry where you’re loved.