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Life is interesting.
I met the groom 21 years ago when he resumed as a JSS 1 student in Green house - my house. I was in JSS 2. I eventually graduated and left. We reconnected as professionals through my former room mates in Law school. We are all lawyers.
Today, I joined him to dobale as he takes his wife home. The world is big enough to accommodate you, and small enough to connect orb reconnect you.
Honestly, I don’t think this is something to run away from… I think it’s something to talk about.
From everything you said, this man loves you, shows up for you, and is already building a future with you. That kind of thing is not something you just throw away because of one gap.
But here’s the part that matters, have you actually talked to him about this?
Not in your head and with your cousin.
I mean sitting down with him, calmly, and saying,
“Babe, I’ve noticed you don’t really help with chores… and I’m thinking about our future, especially when I might not be able to do everything, how do we handle that together?”
Because sometimes, it’s not wickedness, It’s not pride, It’s just what someone grew up used to.
Some men were never taught these things, not because they’re bad… but because nobody showed them.
And the truth is a man who already loves you and takes care of you will most likely listen when you speak from a place of love, not attack.
You’re not looking for perfection, you’re looking for partnership.
And partnership is built through communication, and not assumptions.
If after you speak, he dismisses you, gets angry, or refuses to grow, then yes, you have something serious to think about, but don’t make a life decision based on silence.
Talk first, understand him, let him understand you, because sometimes, the problem is not the relationship… it’s the conversation that hasn’t happened yet.
I LOVE YOU ALL ❤️
HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY.
THANK YOU FOR MAKING MY CAREER A GREAT RIDE
Dear Women from every country on the planet,
Today is International Women’s Day, and I find myself thinking about the women who sit across from me in clinic, and the stories they carry, and the silences they hold. There is the woman who perches at the edge of the chair and whispers about a pain that has lived inside her for years, and the woman who has watched month after month pass by while waiting for two pink lines that refuse to appear, and the woman who buried the small grief of a miscarriage and still smiles politely when I ask, “How are you?” And I have learned that behind almost every woman is a quiet kind of courage the world rarely stops to notice.
As a gynae, I have watched women endure things that would make many hearts tremble, and yet they do it with a grace that feels almost ordinary. I have seen women walk into labour like warriors, their hands gripping hope and faith, and their bodies doing the ancient work of bringing life forward. And I have watched them carry families, carry dreams, carry disappointments, and still wake up the next morning to nurture everyone else. Sometimes I wish the world understood that the female body is not merely anatomy. It is resilience dressed in flesh, sacrifice wrapped in skin, and miracles that often happen quietly.
And so today, if nobody has said this to you, let me say it gently. Your body is not a problem waiting to be solved. Your tears are not weakness. Your scars, the ones on your skin and the ones hidden in memory, are evidence that you have lived, and loved, and lost, and still chosen to rise again.
And to every woman reading this, the one struggling with infertility, and the one battling fibroids, and the one worried about discharge, dryness, pain, or the strange language of hormones, the one who feels as though her own body has betrayed her, please hear me clearly. Your body is still deserving of kindness. And you deserve care, and patience, and tenderness from your doctors, from the world, and most importantly from yourself.
So today I celebrate you. Not only the mothers, but the daughters, and the sisters, and the dreamers, and the fighters, and even the women who are still quietly learning where their strength lives.
Happy International Women’s Day.
From a doctor who has seen your courage up close and who will never stop being in awe of it. 🌸🤍
Happy International Women’s Day to all the women on X. We see you. We love you. We are happy to share this one universe with you because without you, life is incomplete. As the other half of humanity, we celebrate you today and always.
Have a beautiful and colorful day 🫂